From Strict Rules to Positive Reinforcement: A Father's Parenting Journey

In a heartwarming anecdote, Àlex Letosa, a Spanish parenting expert, shares his journey of discovering the importance of positive reinforcement in raising children. Initially, Letosa, who worked as a sports instructor with young children in the 1990s, believed his strict, rule-based approach was effective. He explains, "I focused only on the rules. 'Do this, do that,' always with a smile, but only rules." However, a pivotal moment during his university studies changed his perspective. He recalls, "One day, I told a child, 'Eric, very good for sitting,' and immediately, the others imitated his behavior seeking that positive reinforcement." This experience led Letosa to advocate for a balanced approach, combining both support and control. His message resonates with parents worldwide, highlighting the effectiveness of positive reinforcement in shaping children's behavior.