TikToker's Raw Advice: Why Fixing 'Bad Men' Isn't a Woman's Job

Dating advice often focuses on women adapting to men's behaviors. However, a recent video by TikToker zoey! (@thezoeysterling) challenges this notion. In a passionate, if somewhat profane, speech, zoey! argues that fixing a "bad man" is not a woman's responsibility. "Bad men cannot become good men, not just off of p*m," she states emphatically. Her central point: men need to take ownership of their issues and seek professional help. Zoey! uses the analogy of a "trophy wife," suggesting that some men view women as possessions rather than partners. While her delivery is raw and emotional, her message highlights the importance of self-reflection and therapy for men to address problematic behaviors. The video's popularity underscores the widespread need for a shift in dating dynamics, where personal responsibility is paramount.