The Co-Parenting Dilemma: A Mother's Struggle with Separation and Distance

In a recent online video, a young mother, who wishes to remain anonymous, shared a poignant insight into the complexities of co-parenting with her ex-partner. The video, titled "Clean with me: after my 12h Shift," initially appears to be a typical daily vlog. However, the creator uses the backdrop of her cleaning routine to open up about her personal struggles. "This living with my ex / baby daddy / baby mother lifestyle just ain’t for me," she states in the voiceover, explaining that despite their breakup three to four months ago, they continue to live together for their 1.5-year-old son. Her primary concern revolves around the impending separation and the geographical distance that will soon divide them. With her ex-partner hailing from Scotland and her own family based in Devon, the mother anticipates significant travel challenges for their son. She expressed deep emotional distress at the thought of not seeing her child every day, a stark contrast to their current living arrangement. "I need to see my baby every day. Please tell me I’ll be fine? Is it too much to ask to see my baby every day without living with my ex boyfriend ahhh," she questioned, highlighting the emotional toll of the situation. The video provides a raw and honest look into the difficulties faced by parents navigating separation and shared custody across long distances.