
I ditched the UK and moved to Spain - no one warned me about the reality
A MOTHER who ditched life in the UK for sunny Spain has opened up on the “reality” of moving abroad. After feeling fed up with working just to cover…
A recent social media post by user Becky, known as 'bex_from_rain_to_spain,' has shed light on the often-unfiltered realities of moving from the United Kingdom to Spain. The video, uploaded on July 24, 2025, details the significant challenges faced by those who 'bulldoze their old life' to start anew in a foreign country. The post, which quickly garnered over 49,000 views and numerous comments, illustrates the journey beyond the idyllic 'living the dream' narrative often associated with expat life. Becky emphasizes the absence of a 'safety net,' including jobs and established friendships, and the arduous process of 'rebuilding brick by brick.' Commenters shared a range of experiences, reflecting the diverse outcomes of such a move. One user, who relocated nearly two years ago, stated, "We’ve bought a house in the campo and have a mix of British, Spanish, Belgium and French neighbors. Money is much tighter... but the material things... don’t anymore. We have chickens and a new dog and honestly can’t see us returning to the UK." This perspective highlights the potential for a fulfilling, if financially tighter, life. Conversely, others expressed caution. "Unless you’re going out there, speaking at least some of the language and have about 100k in the bank, or you’re retired with enough money, save Benidorm for holidays. It's a nice 'thought' otherwise. But ultimately not worth it," warned another user, underscoring the financial and linguistic preparedness required. Another comment advised, "The best advice is to integrate with Spanish people and avoid ex pats!" indicating the importance of cultural immersion. The video concludes with a powerful message for prospective movers: "You're not just changing countries, you're starting again." This sentiment resonates with many who have experienced the profound personal and logistical shifts involved in international relocation, prompting a broader discussion on the complexities of expat life.
A MOTHER who ditched life in the UK for sunny Spain has opened up on the “reality” of moving abroad. After feeling fed up with working just to cover…
A MOTHER who ditched life in the UK for sunny Spain has opened up on the “reality” of moving abroad. After feeling fed up with working just to cover…
A MOTHER who ditched life in the UK for sunny Spain has opened up on the “reality” of moving abroad. After feeling fed up with working just to cover…