
The "High Maintenance Woman" AKA Society's Worst Nightmare
How people-pleasing, childhood conditioning, and dating culture push women to be anything but a "high maintenance woman."
In a recent viral video, relationship coach Shera Seven ignited a debate on modern dating, asserting that a woman's appearance directly influences the treatment she receives from men. "If you look low maintenance, you get treated like a low maintenance woman," she stated, emphasizing that looking like "the maid" will lead to being treated as such. The coach advised women to cultivate a "high maintenance" appearance. "No, you need to look like you want to be treated. That's it. High maintenance," she declared. She further added a provocative statement, "Don't even walk near me, talk to me, if you can't afford me. Keep it moving, buddy." The video, shared by the account 'Feminineclips', has garnered significant attention, sparking discussions across social media platforms regarding societal expectations, gender dynamics, and the role of appearance in relationships.
How people-pleasing, childhood conditioning, and dating culture push women to be anything but a "high maintenance woman."