
Betty Who Apologizes for “Lesbophobic” Comments: “I Will Do Better”
“Everyone’s journey is deeply personal, and I shouldn’t have spoken in ways that generalized or spoke for others.”
In a recent episode of the 'Made it Out Media Podcast,' acclaimed singer Betty Who sparked a wide-ranging discussion on the fluidity of queer identity, drawing attention to public figures Renee Rapp and Jojo Siwa. Who, who identifies as queer, expressed her perspective on evolving sexualities, stating, 'I hold space for her if in 10 years she says, 'I met the love of my life and it's this man'.' This comment, made in reference to Renee Rapp's public identification as a lesbian, has ignited debate within the LGBTQ+ community.Betty Who also touched upon Jojo Siwa's recent dating choices, advocating for individuals to make choices that 'feel right in the moment.' She shared her own experience, noting, 'I'm a queer person who was like, I'm probably going to grow up to be gay. And then I became obsessed with a boy. And it's the best thing that ever happened to me.' She emphasized that this personal journey does not negate her queer identity or her love for the queer community.The discussion highlighted a perceived pressure within some parts of the community to rigidly adhere to labels. Who remarked, 'Now we've come so far that our community is so strong that now it's like a crime to be straight.' While she clarified this was a joke, the sentiment reflects a tension regarding identity and acceptance. The podcast host did not interject to challenge or redirect the conversation, allowing Who to elaborate on her views. The comments section of the video reflects a divided audience, with some supporting Who's message of fluidity and others expressing concern that such statements could undermine lesbian identity or be misinterpreted as invalidating same-sex relationships.
“Everyone’s journey is deeply personal, and I shouldn’t have spoken in ways that generalized or spoke for others.”