
"You lot need to find peace": Brave train rider approaches people who use speak…
"People forget about cross culture and cross communication."
London, UK A recent video shared online has ignited a widespread discussion regarding public transport etiquette, after a commuter filmed herself politely confronting another passenger for using her phone on speakerphone. The incident, which took place on a London train, highlights the growing tension between personal freedom and the comfort of fellow passengers in shared public spaces. The video, uploaded by user "freethinkerhan," shows the author approaching a woman who was audibly conducting a phone conversation via speakerphone. In a calm tone, the author initially suggested, "I don't know if you know your headphones weren't connected because I heard your phone call on the speaker." The other passenger, however, quickly clarified, "I don't have any headphones in," and when asked if she minded it playing out loud, she stated, "I don't care." The author then explained her concern, noting, "I just didn't want people to hear your conversation." The exchange remained civil, with the speakerphone user eventually saying, "No, no, it's fine," and the author concluding with, "Good that you know now. It's alright, have a nice evening." The video has since garnered significant attention and a flurry of comments, reflecting a divided public opinion. Many viewers empathized with the author, expressing frustration over the common practice of loud phone calls in public. One commenter wrote, "It’s one of life’s biggest mysteries why people use loudspeaker for phone calls now." Another added, "It’s so embarrassing why do people want everyone to hear their convo." However, others argued that public transport is inherently noisy and that individuals should not attempt to "police people's actions." A comment read, "What’s the difference between this and two people having a f2f convo? Yes it can be annoying but it’s a public space and you can’t police people’s actions. If it bothers you put your own headphones in." Another simply stated, "this is London we are allowed to take a call." The incident underscores a broader societal debate about personal space, noise pollution, and the unwritten rules of conduct in crowded urban environments. While the interaction itself was brief and non-confrontational, the public's reaction demonstrates the strong feelings people hold on the subject of public decorum.
"People forget about cross culture and cross communication."