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Qu'est-ce qu'une « girl's girl » sur les réseaux sociaux ?
L'expression paraît étrange, et pourtant elle existe : l'archétype de la « girl's girl » sur les réseaux sociaux. La « fille de fille » est un vérita…
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The 'Girls Girl' Phenomenon: Exploring Female Solidarity in Modern Friendships
In a recent viral video, content creator Ilona, known as @ilodiesel, delves into the popular concept of being a "girls girl," defining it through a series of relatable scenarios. While applying her makeup, Ilona explains that a true "girls girl" embodies female solidarity and mutual support. Among the key traits highlighted, Ilona emphasizes the "10-second rule," where women discreetly inform strangers about minor wardrobe malfunctions, such as an open zipper or a stain, to prevent embarrassment. She recounts a personal anecdote where a stranger kindly pointed out her open fly, an act she deeply appreciated for saving her from public humiliation. "I really appreciated it because it saved me from being embarrassed in the street," she stated. Another characteristic of a "girls girl" is the willingness to share beauty product recommendations. Ilona asserts that when complimented on a perfume or blush, a "girls girl" doesn't just say "thank you" but readily provides details on where it was purchased and for how much. She also stresses the importance of avoiding unnecessary competition among women, stating that a "girls girl" does not dislike another woman simply for her beauty. "The only competition you have is with yourself," she advises. Furthermore, the video touches on loyalty and protection within female friendships. Ilona suggests that if a man with a girlfriend approaches a "girls girl," she would directly inform his partner rather than ignore the situation or entertain the possibility of a new relationship. This act underscores a commitment to protecting fellow women. Ilona concludes by emphasizing that being a woman can be challenging, and if all women embraced the "girls girl" mentality, life would be much more pleasant. Her message resonates with many, fostering a sense of community and empowerment among her female viewers.
