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‘I love everything about this’: Louisiana woman admits to being in ‘lavender ma…
In three videos, which have amassed over a million cumulative views, Cuts gave viewers an insight into her married life.
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Woman's Viral TikTok Sparks Debate on 'Lavender Marriages' with Gay Men
In a recent viral video, TikTok user Kaycee Cutts has ignited a widespread conversation by openly discussing her 'lavender marriage' to a gay man. Cutts, an interior designer and contractor, explains that she and her husband share a home, raise children, manage businesses, and travel extensively together. "We literally do everything together," Cutts stated in her video, emphasizing the practical benefits of their arrangement. She highlighted the absence of typical romantic relationship drama, describing their dynamic as "pretty freaking chill." While acknowledging that she doesn't fully understand what her husband gains from helping raise children who are not his own, she noted his consistent presence and support. Cutts concluded her video by advocating for other single women, particularly single mothers, to consider a similar partnership. "Forget a straight man, girl. Find you a gay man to do life with you. It really doesn't get any better than this," she advised. The video has garnered over 1.1 million views and thousands of comments, with many users expressing curiosity, support, or skepticism about the concept of a 'lavender marriage.' One commenter shared, "I’ve been in a lavender 'marriage' for nearly 20 years! We live together and raise my son together and travel together and everything lol we just have fun! All the help and friendship with none of the BS."
