Spoiling Kids or Instilling Work Ethic: A Malaysian Parent's Dilemma

In Malaysia and Singapore, the upbringing of children from different socioeconomic backgrounds is a topic of ongoing discussion. Letsgetitpodcast, a Malaysian podcast host, recently shared his parenting philosophy in a short video. He emphasizes instilling a strong work ethic in his child, avoiding excessive indulgence, and letting them learn the value of hard work. This contrasts sharply with the experiences of his child's wealthier peers, who enjoy a lifestyle of privilege and readily available opportunities. "I always have this thought: should you spoil your kids?", he says in the video. "Because obviously, he's going to grow up with a lot of this stuff." He explains his strategy of telling his child that he has "no money" when they want toys, motivating the child to work for what they want. This approach, however, raises questions about the challenges of raising children in a society with vast economic disparities. The video sparks a conversation about the importance of balance in parenting and the need to provide children with opportunities that align with their environment and social circles. The discussion extends to the different hobbies and social experiences available to children from different backgrounds, highlighting the complex interplay of economic status and personal development.