Relationship Red Flags: When a Partner Uses You as a Placeholder

A recent video by relationship expert Shawnda, known as Lifecoachshawn on social media, has sparked discussion about relationship dynamics. The video features an interview where a man's reluctance to commit to marriage reveals his use of his girlfriend as a placeholder while he heals from a previous relationship. Shawnda's analysis highlights the significance of open communication and mutual commitment in relationships. "Sometimes men are very selfish," Shawnda points out in her analysis, "and they will use you to help get over somebody else." The video underscores the importance of recognizing such patterns and prioritizing one's own well-being in relationships. The incident, captured on camera, provides a real-life example of the complexities of modern relationships and the need for honest communication.