Let Them Fall, Let Them Make a Mess: Why Messy Play Is Key to Toddler Development

Toddler Problem-Solving: The Messy Path to Success Parents and educators often focus on structured learning activities, but sometimes the most valuable lessons are learned through messy, challenging play. A recent video by pediatric occupational therapist Shannon (@mamaot_shannon) beautifully illustrates this point. The video shows her toddler tackling various tasks, from climbing a playset (and occasionally falling) to cutting paper with scissors, resulting in a less-than-perfect craft. The child also helps with baking, leading to flour scattered across the kitchen. "Problem-solving for toddlers is loud, messy, and so important," says Shannon in the video. "Let them try. Let them struggle. Let them problem-solve." These seemingly simple activities are actually crucial for developing essential skills like creativity, persistence, resilience, and confidence. The video demonstrates that these skills aren't learned in quiet, controlled environments but rather through hands-on experience and overcoming obstacles. The messy moments captured in the video are not failures but rather stepping stones to success. Shannon's video is a reminder to parents and caregivers to embrace the messiness of learning and allow children the space to explore and develop their problem-solving abilities. The skills learned through these experiences lay a foundation for future academic and social success.