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North Carolina Wedding Venue with Questionable Name Refuses to Refund Money Aft…
A North Carolina wedding venue decided to deny a bride her deposit after her fiancé tragically passed away.
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Durham Wedding Venue Under Fire for Refusing $18,000 Refund After Groom's Death
Durham, NC – The Cotton Room, a prominent wedding venue in Durham, North Carolina, is facing significant public backlash after refusing to refund an $18,000 deposit to a couple following the tragic death of the groom, Chris Perry, months before his wedding. The incident, first reported by WRAL News, has ignited a fierce debate online regarding contractual obligations versus ethical considerations in the wedding industry. Chris Perry and his fiancée, Kristen, had booked The Cotton Room for their wedding scheduled for October 11. However, tragedy struck on May 12 when Mr. Perry unexpectedly collapsed and died. Following this devastating event, Kristen and Mr. Perry's family sought a refund of their substantial deposit from the venue. While other vendors, including the DJ, photographer, and wedding planner, reportedly issued full refunds, The Cotton Room declined, citing their contract which stipulates that deposits are non-refundable unless the venue itself cancels the event. This decision has drawn widespread criticism across social media platforms, with hundreds sharing the story and thousands reacting with comments expressing disbelief and anger. Many have labeled the venue's stance as unethical and lacking empathy, despite acknowledging that the venue is technically adhering to its contractual terms. One commenter stated, "That's wrong," while another added, "Wow, Not the way to do business." In response to the mounting criticism and inquiries from WRAL News, The Cotton Room issued a statement. They indicated that they are "currently focused on the safety of Michelle, her family and the... weddings we have this weekend, as she has now received multiple death threats..." The statement further added, "...and we have been bombarded with thousands of harassing and abusive threats/taunts and messages via all forms of communication as a direct result of your story." Wedding industry experts have weighed in on the matter. Elizabeth Flake, owner of Elizabeth Flake Events, noted the current difficulties faced by many vendors and venues in the hospitality industry. However, she suggested that a more compassionate approach, such as offering a refund, could significantly improve a business's reputation. Another expert, Turner Walston of The Insurance Pros, highlighted the availability of wedding cancellation insurance, which typically costs around $250 and can cover up to $35,000 in unexpected circumstances, including death. He emphasized that such policies are designed for unforeseen events. The Cotton Room maintains that it strongly encourages couples to obtain event insurance, though Kristen does not recall being explicitly informed of this during her booking. The incident underscores the importance for couples to thoroughly review contracts and consider event insurance to protect against unforeseen circumstances.
