Millennial Parents' Disappointment: Are Grandparents Falling Short?

Millennials and Grandparents: A Growing Divide? Millennial parents across the US are expressing disappointment in the level of involvement from their parents, the Boomer and Gen X generations. Many millennials grew up with significant grandparent involvement, spending weekends, holidays, and summers with them. This contrasts sharply with the experiences of their children, who often lack the same level of grandparental support. "I think a lot of millennials can admit we do feel letdown by the grandparents of today," says Phyllis, a millennial mother from the US, in a recent TikTok video. She reflects on this generational shift, questioning whether the trend will continue. Experts suggest several factors contribute to this change, including increased geographic distances, evolving family structures, and differing parenting styles. However, some grandparents are actively challenging this trend, finding ways to remain actively involved in their grandchildren's lives despite these challenges. The hope remains that future generations will find a way to bridge this gap and restore the close bonds once shared between grandparents and grandchildren.