Ghosting: How to Spot the Signs and What to Do

Ghosting in Modern Relationships: Recognizing the Signs and Finding Healthy Responses In today's fast-paced digital world, the phenomenon of "ghosting"—the sudden cessation of communication without explanation—has become increasingly prevalent. A recent TikTok video by Jennibel🌷 (@JENNIBEL_SOMTO) highlights several common signs indicating that someone is about to disappear from your life. The video, which has garnered 194 views in less than 24 hours, suggests that excuses like being "busy" or having "family issues" may be red flags. "They start to claim very busy," says Jennibel in the video. "The moment they come up with that you start getting ready." This observation points to a common pattern where individuals gradually withdraw communication before completely cutting contact. While the video's advice to "ghost them first" is controversial and not necessarily a healthy approach, it underscores the frustration and hurt associated with being ghosted. A more constructive approach would involve open communication and setting boundaries. Experts suggest that direct conversation, even if difficult, is often more beneficial than resorting to retaliatory ghosting. The video's popularity reflects the widespread experience of ghosting and the need for better understanding and coping mechanisms. While the video itself offers a somewhat simplistic solution, it serves as a starting point for a broader conversation about healthy communication and relationship dynamics.