
“This Is the Energy I Need From Men” — Woman Shares How Guy Responded to Man’s …
"Should just be the bare minimum."
In a recent viral video, a woman shared an empowering account of male allyship that has sparked widespread discussion on social media. The incident occurred during a regular volleyball gathering where a man, identified as 'M', had been persistently making unwanted advances toward women, ignoring their clear rejections. The woman recounted how she and others had repeatedly asked 'M' to cease his behavior, to no avail. The situation escalated when 'M' attempted to join a group of women for tacos after a game, prompting concerns about his continued presence. Women in the group approached male friends, asking for 'M' to be seated between two men to prevent further harassment. Upon learning of 'M's conduct, one man, referred to as 'Q', immediately responded with, "I believe you." This simple yet powerful statement resonated deeply with the women involved. 'Q' then took further action, stating that he and another male friend would address 'M' directly about his behavior, emphasizing that 'M's actions were the problem, not the women's reactions. He also made it clear that if the behavior continued, 'M' would no longer be welcome at the gatherings. This incident has been lauded online as a prime example of men holding other men accountable, a crucial step in fostering safer environments for women and addressing pervasive issues of harassment and unwanted advances.
"Should just be the bare minimum."