Life
"Járj vele, míg meg nem utálod" – Tiktok trend, mely a pszichológusoknál már cs…
Life a női portál. Pikáns, provokatív, szexi, nőies, csajos, friss és érdekes. Legfrissebb hírek nőket érintő témakörökben, videók, vélemények és pod…
3k
192k
29k
1M
The Controversial 'Date Them Until You Hate Them' Theory Sparks Online Debate
A recent viral video by content creator Meg Neil, known as @themegneil, has ignited a fierce discussion across social media platforms with her unconventional "Date Them Until You Hate Them" theory. In a "Get Ready With Me" style video uploaded on January 26, 2023, Neil, while applying her makeup, detailed her personal strategy for navigating difficult breakups, claiming it allowed her to end a four-year relationship without experiencing typical heartbreak. Neil’s theory suggests that instead of immediately ending a problematic relationship, individuals should allow their partners to continue disrespectful behaviors without reacting. "You are going to let them disrespect you, you're going to watch them disrespect you, and you are going to keep doing it until you no longer want to associate with them anymore," Neil explained in her video. She posits that this process gradually erodes feelings of love, replacing them with resentment or indifference, thereby preparing one emotionally for a "graceful" exit. The theory has garnered significant attention, with many viewers sharing their own experiences and opinions in the comments section. One user commented, "Hate to say it but it's the only way to guarantee you move on fully, clean cut." Another shared, "I did this and left with a smile on my face. Other then hurting I felt relieved." However, the approach also faced criticism, with some users questioning its emotional toll. "Not if you have bpd :)," one user noted, while another mentioned, "I cried more in the relationship than the breakup. makes sense." The "Date Them Until You Hate Them" theory, while controversial, highlights the complex emotional landscape of relationships and breakups, offering a starkly different perspective on how individuals cope with the end of a partnership.
New York Post
Singles are dating until they’re ‘hating’ to make break ups easier —here’s how …
“It’s the only way to guarantee you move on fully, clean cut.”
