The 'Gen Z Stare': A Millennial Host's Take on Generational Customer Service Habits

A recent viral video by TikTok user @theprincessandthepoppers has ignited discussion about intergenerational communication, specifically focusing on what some are calling the 'Gen Z stare.' The creator, identifying as a millennial and a host at a bar/restaurant, describes encountering a distinct, disengaged gaze from younger customers when asked simple questions. According to the content creator, this 'stare' is not a look of judgment or confusion, but rather a silent, blank expression when Gen Z patrons are asked straightforward questions like whether they are dining in or heading to the bar. He emphasizes that this behavior is frequent, stating, 'So many times they'll just stand there and go [demonstrates blank stare].' The video also touches on the broader generational dynamic, with the creator suggesting that while Gen Z often generalizes and criticizes older generations, particularly millennials, they struggle to accept similar playful jabs directed at them. He states, 'You guys have spent literal years on this app generalizing and making fun of all other generations, especially millennials, and then the second you get a little taste of it back, you all get really mad.' The video has sparked a lively debate in the comments section, with many users sharing similar observations and others defending Gen Z's behavior.

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The Gen Z stare

Has an entire generation abandoned small talk?