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Florida Woman Says She ‘Wasn’t Allowed to Have’ Area Rugs During Marriage: ‘The…
A Florida mom revealed how small restrictions in her marriage grew into a pattern of control that she’s only now breaking free from.
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Woman Details Years of Control in Marriage: From Forbidden Area Rugs to European Travel
Erica Wolfe, a 38-year-old real estate professional, recently shared a candid account of her divorce, finalized in February 2024, revealing years of controlling behavior from her ex-husband. Speaking from a conference in Dallas, Wolfe described a relationship where her former spouse, who was unemployed, dictated various aspects of her life, including her ability to purchase area rugs, shop at Target, or travel to Europe. "I wasn't allowed to have area rugs," Wolfe recounted, highlighting what she initially brushed off as "particular" traits but now recognizes as controlling. She further revealed that her ex-husband prevented her from buying cars for their children and alienated his own family from her and their kids. Since the divorce, Wolfe has been actively "unlearning" these restrictions, stating, "I have six area rugs in my house now, I go to Target frequently, I even order from them online, I've been to Europe twice." Her story has resonated with many, sparking discussions on the subtle signs of controlling relationships and the journey to recovery.
