Opinion: I have become invisible in my 50s, and it is glorious
Often, society decides older women are no longer visible, but this can be a blessing, writes Gwen Loughman.
In a recent BBC Sounds' Woman's Hour podcast, author Marian Keyes shared a powerful story about navigating a group of men who refused to make room for her on a pavement. Keyes describes her response, stating, "I got my elbows out and I barrelled into the group of them." This anecdote highlights a common experience for women, often feeling invisible in public spaces. Keyes' actions, however, demonstrate the unexpected strength and power that can arise from such situations. The podcast further explores the themes of invisibility and the rage experienced by middle-aged women, prompting reflection on gender dynamics and everyday power struggles. The story serves as a reminder of the importance of assertive self-advocacy and the power inherent in female experiences.
Often, society decides older women are no longer visible, but this can be a blessing, writes Gwen Loughman.