Decoding Relationship Dynamics: The Rise of 'Black Cat Energy'

Relationship Dynamics: Exploring 'Golden Retriever' and 'Black Cat' Energies. A recent social media video by influencer Margarita Nazarenko has sparked discussion by introducing the concepts of "golden retriever energy" and "black cat energy" within romantic relationships. Nazarenko defines individuals with "golden retriever energy" as those who actively pursue and are eager to please their partners, often at the expense of their own emotional well-being. She suggests that women exhibiting this trait frequently experience unhappiness in their relationships. In contrast, Nazarenko advocates for "black cat energy," characterizing it as a state where an individual is pursued, maintains control over their emotions, and does not allow external comments or actions to dictate their mood or self-perception. "A black cat is the person who is worshipped and pursued," Nazarenko stated in her video, emphasizing the importance of emotional autonomy. Her primary advice, labeled "Tip No. 1," focuses on not letting others "put you out of your emotions" or "out of character." She illustrates this with a hypothetical scenario: if a partner criticizes an outfit, a "golden retriever" might react with distress or immediately offer to change, while a "black cat" would remain unfazed, simply stating, "Yeah, I'm wearing this tonight." Nazarenko asserts that men sense this emotional control, making it a "very dangerous position" for women to constantly depend on a partner's reactions for their mood. The video aims to empower women to foster self-control and independence in their romantic lives.

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one month ago

Είσαι η «μαύρη γάτα» ή το «golden retriever» στη σχέση σου;

Ανακάλυψε αν στη σχέση σου είσαι η “μαύρη γάτα” ή το “χρυσό retriever”, τι σημαίνουν αυτά τα προφίλ, πώς επηρεάζουν τη δυναμική σας και πώς να βρείτε…